“If time with God is not on your schedule, you’re not on the path of God.”
I cringed at the minister’s words, remembering the early years of motherhood. Marriage, parenting, teaching school, and a myriad of other responsibilities made it difficult to find a set block of time to dedicate to God.
Other than the two hours on Sundays spent in church, my God time was on the run. I prayed when I went to bed, but in those days, sleep claimed me within minutes of my head hitting the pillow.
Other than the two hours on Sundays spent in church, my God time was on the run. Click To TweetI had to work it in another way. Because I spent a lot of time in the car, my radio was tuned to praise music. I kept a small New Testament Bible in the glove compartment. While I waited in drive-through lines at the bank, I would grab it and read a few verses.
But the thing I found most effective was the Five Finger Prayer. I prayed it every morning on my drive to work. Each finger represents a different focus, and the symbolism for each makes sense.
The prompts, listed below, are simple and easy to remember. The idea is to follow the same pattern daily.
Touch each finger as you pray:
- Start with the thumb.
The thumb is closest to your heart, so use it to pray for family. I prayed for my children and whatever they had going on that day; my husband, and any other family member in need of prayer.
2.The pointer is next.
Use this finger to prompt prayer for those whose job it is to “point” others in the right direction. I prayed for teachers and doctors. I prayed for my church staff. Praying for specific needs makes this more meaningful, such as the spinal surgeon a friend was seeing to get to the bottom of her unexplainable pain.
3. Move to the middle.
The middle finger, our tallest, represents our leaders: our president, state, and local leaders. I prayed for my principal here, too.
4.Don’t forget ring man.
Did you know the ring finger is weaker than the rest? Use it to remember the vulnerable. The friend or family member going through divorce, facing serious illness, grieving the loss of a loved one, or dealing with financial hardship are just a few situations.
5.End with the pinky.
Your smallest finger represents you. Pray for yourself last. We tend to begin prayer with what we need, especially when rushed. This model reminds us to be humble, and to value others above ourselves.
My drive to work took ten minutes, so I devoted about two minutes to each finger prompt, give or take, depending on current circumstances.
By the time I reached work, I felt peaceful and productive. What’s more, opening the lines of communication to God, even in this brief way, left me more attuned to hearing from Him throughout the day.
“…present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus” Philippians 4:6-7 (NIV).
Now that my days are more my own, God is on my daily schedule. I love starting each day in solitude with Him. But there are times when my days get harried, and I revert to this Five Finger prayer on the run. Sometimes I do it for nostalgia’s sake.
How do you make time for God during those super busy rushed times?
Note: I didn’t create The Five Finger Prayer. I can’t remember where I read about it, but I’d love to credit the originator. If you know, please share in the comments section.
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Candyce, I love your idea! Just perfect!
This is a wonderful guide. Thank you for sharing. Even when we’re not in a rush or on the go, we still sometimes struggle with how to pray and what to say. This method can get us going.
Yes Katherine, you are right. I think of times of being in so much pain that I didn’t know where to start. This model can serve as a springboard.
I love this so much. I will book mark this page so I can remember to use this prayer method.
Josh, we can never have too many resources to help us in our faith walk.
Shared! I love your idea of how to pray while in your car. Your five finger method is great. I was a stay-at-home mom who homeschooled, too. I felt like I had no time to spend with the Lord. I finally began putting the kids in front of the TV for one hour with an educational program, as I sat in the next room with my Bible and the Lord. Some of the best prayer time I would have!
Yes, we’ve all been there. It’s hard to find that important uninterrupted time with Him, but when we do it changes our life. Thank you for sharing!
This is a great tool for teaching my young adult children about prayer. We pray often together, but this will be a great conversation starter for helping them pray on their own. This young adult stage is when we are at risk of ‘losing them to the world,’ so this came at a great time. Thank you, Candyce for a useful post! 🙂
You’re right! I’ve shared this with young mothers, but I’ve never considered how it could work with high school and college age kids. Great idea!
One of my favorites Ms. Candyce. In writing a manuscript a few years ago, I learned about numerous different models for prayer; this one is still one I practice when I’m “on the go” also. It’s a great way to remember to get all the important things in, and in a repeatable order. 🙂 Thank you for this great post ma’am.
Finally someone familiar with this method! I was beginning to think I’d dreamed it. It’s one that has stuck with me many years. Of course not one I call on much these days, but it can serve a good purpose.
Thanks for commenting!
Love this idea, and I especially love the symbolism and connection with each finger to the topic of prayer! Thanks for sharing.
Thank you Julie. It’s one that has stuck with me for a lot of years. There’s something to those memory prompts we teachers love to teach to kids
Good prompts! Thanks for sharing.
I’ve not heard of this before, but it is very clever. Thanks for sharing, Candyce!
I love this idea, Candyce! Even though I’m an empty nester now there are still mornings when I touch the steering wheel before my coffee mug and on those days, I will give the five finger prayer a try. Thank you!
We’re at the same place in life – empty nesters. Thank goodness we still have work to do.
Thanks for your feedback!